Getting Your Ex Back In Minutes
When you want to get your ex back, you want to get them back as quickly as possible. But how can you do this? Most people trying bugging their ex’s, calling or texting ten times a day. When this doesn’t work, they give up and hope that time will heal the wounds, so they settle in to wait weeks or months.
But often you can get your ex back fast, in just a few days. Sometimes you can get your ex back in minutes. Here’s what you need to understand to accomplish this:
First, you’ve got to understand something about emotional logic. Your ex used to have positive feelings about you. That’s why you were a couple. You both felt good about being with the other person. Obvious, right? Now, things have happened and your ex has their heart full of negative feelings about you. Anger, hurt, sadness, betrayal, boredom, depending on what happened. The positive feelings have been replaced with negative emotions. Also obvious, right?
What you have to do to get your ex back fast is to help them to release and resolve their negative feelings towards you. When you can do that, you can get your ex back in hours, sometimes in minutes.
How can you do this? How can you, who have no emotional training, help your ex to release and resolve their negative feelings towards you? There are several steps, but one of the key steps to accomplish this you already know. Its called venting or getting things off their chest.
What you have to do is help them to vent. Let them get these feelings about you off their chest. So if you cheated on them, for example, they are feeling betrayed, hurt, ashamed. That’s what fills their heart now. You’ve got to get them to vent, to empty their cup, to tell you how they feel about what you did. You don’t argue, you don’t defend yourself, you get them to talk and tell you what they think of you.
As they do this, they are releasing these feelings. They are venting the emotional charge. They are beginning to heal. They have to do this before your apology can be accepted. They have no room in their heart to take you back until they have released most of the emotional pressure of their negative feelings about what you did.
There is a lot more to the science and art of venting, but it is a key strategy in getting your ex back in hours or minutes instead of waiting weeks or months. There are some other steps involved in getting your ex back in minutes, but this is a good start.
